About Me
If you need to reach me, send an email (translate to standard format) — Cubby at PatentlyQueer doot coom
Let’s see… I’m a 46-year-old extreme hottie regular guy living in historic Alexandria, Virginia in the DC suburbs, and formerly from Dayton, Ohio. In Aug. 2009 I started exercising to lose some weight and I had much better success than I would have predicted. Then in Feb. ’11 I added a formal diet (Weight Watchers Online for Men) to the exercise regimen and the weight really fell off. I lost a total of 80 pounds, and with WW I’ve had no problems keeping it off. I feel fantastic! I’m excited about what happened to me!
My husband Greg and I have been together since we met in Jan. ’93. In July ’08 we decided to make it official, so we went to California and were legally wed in beautiful San Francisco City Hall. We are one of the 18,000 same-sex couples who were married during the brief period in which it was legal. The California Supreme Court upheld our marriage as valid despite the passage of the infamous Proposition 8.

Greg (l) and Cubby (r) seal the deal!
Who is next to be targeted by the marriage haters? Will it be immigrants? The elderly? Folks in wheelchairs? Straight couples who are infertile or who choose not to procreate? Non-Christians? The intellectually disabled? Whose rights will the bigoted majority take away next?
Imagine if your marriage was put up to a vote before the bigoted citizenry of your state. Your life could be turned upside-down at the voters’ whim. Where’s the justice? Stop the hate!
*****
Want to know a little more about me? Check out this webpage.
*****
Has anyone ever heard of GIMP (The GNU Image Manipulation Program)? It’s an open source substitute for Photoshop. I love playing with it!







{ 6 comments… read them below or add one }
I love GIMP!
Hello, nice to meet you
You look mahvelous, Dahling! I’m a straight female author who found your website while searching for the first names of the Barber twins who are heroes to my 17-yo twin h.s. football-playering characters. LOVE your entry! (so to speak
) Have also been writing a few love scenes for my gay characters, which isn’t as much of a stretch (ha, ha) as it might seem, since we all love the men! Best wishes to you and your hubby, Cubby… PAL
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, CUBBY!!!
Peace <3
Jay
Happy Birthday, Cubby. Hope it goes down as one of the best.
Cheers!
Happy birthday, sexy guy!